I am currently a soldier serving in Iraq. I just found out 3 weeks ago that my H had an A for a few months while I have been away. It ended about 2 months ago. Of course I am devastated but I still love him and want to make things work. He says he wants to as well. But I am still overseas for 2 more months. My question is this: How can we rebuild the trust? I know I may never fully trust him 100% again, and I know I will never forget it, but for anyone who has gone through this and decided to stay with a partner who swears they have changed, what kinds of things have you done to try to rebuild that trust? The hardest part about it is that I am still over here worlds away and it seems like I am powerless AND blind to be able to do anything about it until I get home and we are face to face again.
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