i have been apart from my stbx for 5 mths.he has decided to make a go of his realtionship with the ow.yet he says he still loves me and doesnt want a divorce.i know he is keeping me as a second prize and have told him there is no way back for us.the problem is although i tell him that i dont belive it in my heart and i know in 6 mths if it didnt work with her i would have him back.i feel so stupid and used.how do you get over him and not let him walk all over you.i love him dearly and we have two little kids but i am not and will not be hios doormat.how do you find the inner strength to walk away.and advice appreaiated..
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