As you can read by my bio my husband crushed our marriage with an online affair he carried on for over 9 months. All he wants me to do is put it out of my head and move on. He thinks cause he has I should be able to too. How do I get hime to realize that it isn't that simple. The one person I gave my heart and soul to for life has gone and betrayed me and our children. I try daily to just "go on" but there are always those moments that my mind wanders and it all comes back to me. Does anyone have any suggestions on what I can do? When I bring up going to a counselor or therapist he syas we can't afford it. I try to tell him he can't put a price on our marriage and if we want to try to move on we have to do something and then he says he'll look into it....but alas we still have yet to go. Could someone please help me here. I have already had one nervous break down due to his dirty little secert and ended up in the hospital fo 3 weeks, I know I can't go thru that again.
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