my husband cheated on me 9 years ago. The worst part it was with two women he works with. they both work for his family's company. Of course, everyone found out. If it could get any worst, the father would rather me not work there and keep the two women. These women have been with several men. One is currently sleeping with a pastor of a church. I know my husband has changed and he really isn't the type of guy to have an affair. he has begged and asked for forgiveness for years now. He lied at first about the affair and said that sex was not involved. Any way I really thought I was over it until he returned to the family business. He was gone for 5 years and the women still work there. It is really disgusting. After 18 years of marriage, I am really considering divorce. We have been together since high school. It seems like such a waste. I just don't think I will ever truly forgive him. I have confronted the other women and everything. It's still not enough. Maybe I am just not the type to continue with a marriage. To top it off, my mother was dying of cancer when I found out and she asked me to stay with him. She really loved him and just couldn't believe it.
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