Each night I come on here to see the new posts, questions and discussions..and just when I think I have it all figured out something throws me a curve ball.. so how do you know that "my husband wont be the "serial cheater" or how do I know that "god wont change him"..Each week something else has been uncovered in his affairs that has been just as devastating..I kept asking for him to tell me the whole truth to begin with..and now it has just had to trickle in.. he is in counseling and it came out this past Friday from his counselor that he did not have ALL OF the INFORMATION when he told my H NOT to give me the past financials(another post I asked for advice from you guys on)..only to tell his counselor in the office Friday about the 10,000.00 grand he withdrew from our joint card(at my reminder) and to tell me the last little shopping spree he took a girl on was over 700.00 bucks.. He has more f____ money then sense.God I am sick..and humiliated and tired. And I think this is just it. Today he came by to see the daughter.. we got in an argument .. you see Friday I had gone by his office to sign some papers... while I was in his office his cell phone rang.. I looked at him..he want going to answer it..I said go ahead answer it..he picked it up and then just pushed the sidebar button to turn it off. The told me it was an email (has a blackberry) well he thinks I am so stupud that I dont know that you have to hit the button on the fron center face to see an email..he continued to deny this in the therapist offce Friday. So anyway today I asked him for the code to his phone..he just went beserk.. I said to him..if that is how he has to act then it is over..and of course I bet all of you can guess all the choice words he had for me.. I said tohim something about firdays call then he said it was just the drs office calling to confirm my appt. I said well ONE why did you lie to me and TWO why didnt you answer the phone.. he said "Because I didnt recognize the number"..now guess who went beserk.. seven almost eight week thursday we have been separated and he still cant answer a phone around me yet he is begging me every day to come home..so..how do you know.. how do you know when enough is enough..and its time to move one..god I hate him..I hate this pain.. my children the pain for them..the confusion. if my boys knew what he has done they would kill him.
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