How do I get my wife to want me again or desire me? I know she loves me and is remorseful for what she did. I know she still thinks about him, but that doesn't bother me as much as her not desiring me bothers me. Make sense? I really believe her when she says she wants to make it work. I do, but today I just had the worst feeling that she was texting him. She says I'll know if she texts him b/c I can just look in her phone and even though she can delete the texts, I can see her recently sent to list which there isn't a way to delete. Part of me thinks she either found a way to delete them or she has his number under a different cover. I hate asking her if she's communicating with him b/c if she isn't I look like a psycho fool and then she gets mad. Even though I have caught her in lies recently, I want give her some space and trust. Anyway, back to my original question. Have any of you lacked desire for your significant other, but then gained it back after time? It would be much easier if I just didn't desire her either, but she is the one that I love and not to mention she's just so damn sexy that I can't stand it. I know she doesn't feel that way either, but I try to make her feel that way, but she doesn't respond well b/c she doesn't see me in that way right now.
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