About a year ago, my husband dissapeared for a night. I was 8 months pregnant. Later, I found out he was with a woman, he took her to a party, (he also had a drug problem, more news to me), and disappeared for sometime with her, they went out got in her car and didn't come back for an hour or so, he did this in front of everyone we know, by the way. This was about 4am. He denies that he had any sexual contact with her, but has never offered any alternative explanation,like-we were talking, or her car broke down, he refuses to discuss it at all. It is haunting me, I cannot move on, I need closure on this issue. Ironically, I would not end my marriage based on a mistake, but his continued refusal to be open and honest with me will eventually be the downfall of our marriage. I need acknowledgement, of some kind, so that i can accept it and move on, but he refuses to discuss it in any way. What should I do??
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