My sister recently married back in May of 06 to a man she has known for 4 years. They seemed so happy to the point of make me want to puke stage. Sure they had their problems, what marriage doesn't. Our family loves him to death! My sister has been avoiding her best friend, our parents and myself. She recently was reaquainted with some old friends. This last week my brother in law spent a couple of nights looking for my sister as she would stay out late or not come home. I was the chosen one to confront my sister and she admitted to having an affair. My brother in law suspects but does not know. She does not want to tell him or anyone else. She usually runs from conflict. She told our parents she loves her husband but is not in love with him and they have told her she could move back home. How do I help her realize that lying and deceiving are wrong. She claims she went to a therapist today but states she is tired of talking. Please help me understand and help her. I don't like keping her dirty little secret! And yes, I am so disappointed with her and wanting to track down this "old friend" but I will always love her!
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