Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I\'ve been with my boyfriend for about 2 and a half years now, and we have been living with eachother for a little over a year. We had some infidelity problems on his part back in May of this year, and ever since then ive had an extremely hard time trusting him. I\'ve had ex\'s cheat before, but i dropped them in a second, but for some reason i couldnt break up with him. I haven\'t had to deal with a situation like this before and im not exactly sure how to handle it. I\'m always wondering if he is seeing anyone else, hangin out with anyone, ect. There\'s been even times that i\'ve looked through his stuff on the computer and at home, yes i know, its a big no no. I do feel bad about it. I\'ve confronted him about it a few times when i find things that is suspicious and he gets so upset. I just wonder if he gets upset cause he\'s really not doing anything, or if he is and is afraid of getting caught again. i quit looking throguh his things cause i think of if he isnt doing anything that i may be pushing him further away with these accusations. he swears up and down he hasnt seen anyone since May of this year and he even suggested couples counseling which we have gone to a few times.
how should i handle this so we can actually work? please help
how should i handle this so we can actually work? please help
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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I gave my 2 week notice last Friday 13th. Now to join you fine people in a life of leisure and nothing else to do but to look out for myself....is it just me or does that sound pretty boring? My goal was to live to retire and I guess having to take early retirement because of health reasons wasn't exactly the way I had planned things. I just can't stay in that building that is reeking mildew...
He broke my trust. I don\'t have any real good advice it is just a day by day thing, there are going to be days that you don\'t trust him and other days when you do, he has made an effort by going to counseling so maybe he is telling the truth.
Good luck. And if you can figure out how to get the trust back let me know because there are times I still don\'t trust my husband.
Yes he has done the counseling thing, and paid the pretty penny for it..we are no longer going, cause we felt we got everything out of it that we could. I definetly recommend it to anyone who is having couples/relationship problems.
I know that he talks to girls and everything, which doesnt bother me at all...but there are 1 or 2 that i worry bout though.....that i think he COULD be intimate with or dating. Not sure. I dont know what kind of questions to ask, or what kind of signs to look for? does anyone? id like to know
I\'m sorry to hear about whats going on with both of you guys ( the ppl who replied to my comment earlier) Wow, how are u dealing with the waitress thing? I would not be a happy camper. So did he tell u all of this or did u have to find out for yourself? i\'d like to know more about the situation.
Let me know how all is going
Barbie :)