I feel completely clueless, helpless, and hopeless. My just found out that my H of 12 years have been having an affair for over 3yrs. He claims that it is over. But I do not believe him. I honestly thought that eveything was fine. I feel like my whole world has been turned upside down. I can not eat, sleep or think about what to do. I am completely overwhelmed with grief. My family all seem to think that I should just get over it. My H says he wants to make it work but his behavior shows otherwise. I do not know what to do. Everytime I try to talk to him, it turns into a big fight. Someway, somehow...the fight is always my fault. I do not know what to do. I feel like I am going crazy...PLEASE HELP... How do I deal with this? How can I start to heal?
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