The most painful thing I have ever had to endure was finding out that for the past year and a half my husband has been having cyber-sex. I tried for over a year to figure out what was going wrong. He said it was his job, he said he just couldn't preform. Then I find out why. We are struggling to hold our marraige together but he has been in a fantasy world so long that I can't live up to it. I even found some of the letters he had written to the other women. Romantic and nasty. Too bad he didn't use a little of that on me. Who knows what might of happened. Now that it is suspose to be over I am suspose to just let it go. Never say another word about it. Go forward. The part that hurt the most, he made love to me when we first go back together, he then left our home, got onto his computer and had cybe-sex with the other woman. You may think it's not that big of a deal, but when you find out something like this is going on, a little bit of you dies. I truely thought we were so inlove, best friends, soul mates. Boy was I ever wrong. How do I get through this?
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