
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

deleted_user
For anyone on here that might be considering cheating, or anyone that has cheated and wants to know how we feel, I thought I might just start a list of the feelings and emotions we, the betrayed, go through on a daily basis. Maybe this might prevent someone from cheating if they can just see it listed out in this format without having to read lots of emotional stories on here. Or maybe it might help someone that has cheated to understand what we are going through, because nobody knows the devastation until they've been there. I talked to one OW on here that said it never crossed her mind that we might feel compared to them. Can you imagine? So here's the start:
1) I feel like a total fool for not noticing anything different, and then believing the lies.
2) I get literally nauseated several times a day when I think of the OW with my husband.
3) Every time I hear a specific sweet nickname, my heart breaks all over again because that is what he called her.
4) ????
1) I feel like a total fool for not noticing anything different, and then believing the lies.
2) I get literally nauseated several times a day when I think of the OW with my husband.
3) Every time I hear a specific sweet nickname, my heart breaks all over again because that is what he called her.
4) ????
Posts You May Be Interested In
-
theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
-
I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
everytime I think of what they did in her car in the walmart parking lot behind the building I get sick and thank god that they were never busted..
I also wonder how he can swear to love me so much but then still do those things with her..not so much anymore but a lot at first
I will never trust...anyone..again.
I feel as if I am not and never will be...enough.
I have experienced humiliation down to my soul...and everyone who is close to me knows, as I was too upset for too long to hide it.
Mostly, I will always know that my husband did not love me enough. He does not love me enough. I will never feel that special feeling of knowing he chose me over all others. I will never not assume that if someone comes along, who meets a certain criteria, he will think nothing of causing me this excruciating pain again.
I would be a fool to expect more. I will not be a fool again.
I will never trust easily again.
Whenever I'm out in town and some woman smiles at me that I don't know, I wonder if he nailed her too.
I feel like the butt of a very bad joke.
I'll always wonder if "I love you" means "I love you...until someone better comes along."
And I'll never love or trust so openly ever again.
Yesterday, I found the shipping slip for the watch that my children and husband give me and it was dated May, 2001 and I had to sit down and cry my heart out.... because H was right in the middle of his fling.... (or as I always say, his adultery)
H picked it out and the three of them went together and brought it.... It was very, very expensive...
Hugs to all the wives/husbands out there who are being cheated on....my prayers are with you.... I understand all the feelings that all of you have....because I have the same ones...
Sticking a knife inside yourself, twisting it, waiting a long time for it to heal and sticking it in again in excatly the same spot....
This would hurt less than the betrayal.