It is 18 months since I found out about my wife's affair and although we have made a good attempt at moving on, I am still haunted every day by what happened. I know very little about the affair as she has always found it hard to talk about it. In the past she has lied about the details and then had those lies uncovered as other evidence appeared. I know she is deeply sorry for the hurt she has caused, but I feel that the difficulty I have had moving out Of depression is due largely to the uncomfortable fact that many other people know more about this part of our relationship that I am allowed to. I want to push her again to talk with openness and honesty about what happened, but I am worried that maybe this is the wrong thing to do. Will it make things easier if I know more of the details? Am I just punishing myself wanting to know these things? Am I just punishing her? Is it possible to move on and be happy without the details of the affair being known to me? How will I be sure I am not being told more lies?
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