I recently found out that my husband of 20 years was having an affair with a 26 year old co-worker for the past 2 years. I have 3 beautiful children. In April I finally kicked him out in hopes of letting him know how serious I was about the situation. I can't continue to have a 3rd person involved in this marriage. He continues to see this person, texting, emailing etc. He says that he loves her and just can't shut off his feelings for the person. But I feel that he shut off his feelings for me. Found a FATHER"S DAY card that the OW gave him and I blew how dare she give a Father's Day card to him when they don't have kids she wrote in there how much she loves him and loves him even more seeing what a wonderful father he is to his kids. I have told him several times that I am willing to work on this marriage but he needs to stop the relationship with her but he is just not willing to do it. I need help with letting go and trying to move on.....
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