Ever feel like a significant person (i.e. spouse) in your life behaves from their head instead of from their heart? I feel like my H loves me in his head, finds me worthy in his head, finds me valuable in his head, finds himself to blame for his infidelity in his head, which in turn he is intelligent enough to know how to "act" and say the "appropriate" things, but he feels NONE of these things in his HEART? Is this crazy making behavior and projection on my part? The reason for my thought process, is any time I confront with a hurt or heart issue, he gets defensive--or as puts his "sword" up so to speak. BUT if he has time to let it soak in and process he is able to come up with some in my opinion, flat something to say that sounds real nice...any comments?
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