Today was a very very sad day.. My H`s grandmother died this morning ...when she was told about his affair and that we were splitting she was a bit upset and told me that I would always be his granddaughter...we have been talking and I had to go over one day last week and take her to the hospital cause she had passed out... we found out that her one valve was going bad...MIL asked me to talk to H about it cause we have been talking and sort of maybe trying to fix things....anyways his grandparents share 64 wonderful years together and we got the call this morning... I drove him over to his grandparents house and held him while he cried....we got back to the house and he looked at me and said I think I broke her heart by cheating on you...I feel sooo bad for him and am missing her myself as she has been a part of my life for the past 16 years...the bitterswee thing...was today was our sons bday party though his bday was 2 weeks ago....so again when you cheat remember that it really affects everyone and can give you guilt at some point...and I told him and I beieve that he did not break her heart...she told me numerous times how much she loved him and me both ...
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