Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
I HATE THIS.......
today i am having a day where i feel angry as HELL. i hate that my husband thought so little of me and our marriage, our family that he put us in this situation forever. christmas is coming and not only are we buying gifts for our son, but we have to buy gifts for HIS daughter. on one hand i am excited because this year my son is old enough to understand what is happening (christmas) but on the other hand he has to try to be equal and fair to HIS other child, and don't get me wrong, she did nothing and deserves to have a christmas just like our son, this is just so hard and i don't understand what this all is suppose to mean. i am so damn angry with him. some days i am okay and other days i literally feel steam coming from the top of my head. i scheduled an appointment to go and speak to our pastor by myself. i am hoping he can help me find the peace that i am so longing for.
today i felt like just curling up under a rock and dying. thank god for my son, he is the sole reason i get out bed and function.
i just needed to vent, thanks for reading and for any responses. i am having a pity party today.
today i am having a day where i feel angry as HELL. i hate that my husband thought so little of me and our marriage, our family that he put us in this situation forever. christmas is coming and not only are we buying gifts for our son, but we have to buy gifts for HIS daughter. on one hand i am excited because this year my son is old enough to understand what is happening (christmas) but on the other hand he has to try to be equal and fair to HIS other child, and don't get me wrong, she did nothing and deserves to have a christmas just like our son, this is just so hard and i don't understand what this all is suppose to mean. i am so damn angry with him. some days i am okay and other days i literally feel steam coming from the top of my head. i scheduled an appointment to go and speak to our pastor by myself. i am hoping he can help me find the peace that i am so longing for.
today i felt like just curling up under a rock and dying. thank god for my son, he is the sole reason i get out bed and function.
i just needed to vent, thanks for reading and for any responses. i am having a pity party today.
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My first husband had a child with another woman while we were married too, only I didn't find out about the child until 10 years later (6 years after our divorce). I am so sorry you are going through this.
Thriver
This is tough. I have no idea how I would deal with this. It probably feels like his mistake is going to pollute every aspect of your life for a long time until you get used to it. You know what to do, it's just really super hard to actually do it.
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