Saturday went to separated wife home for mail and to take firewood at the new girlfriends place. Wife said she was having problems with her brakes on her car. Said I was going shopping, she said she was going there also. We went and were gone about one and a half hours. Friend of my girlfriend saw my truck there and thought I was having a relationship with the separated wife. Needless to say it all went down hill from there she didn't want anything to do with me and wanted her space. I was bad and couldn't give her the space she needed. I just wanted to say my side of the story. Almost got arrested on harassment charges. Turns out separated wife and girlfriend were talking on the phone. Who knows what was said. All I know it that I'm in the doghouse from every side and cant make contact with the girlfriend, at the risk of getting arrested. Yea should have been divorced or not get a girl friend. I was cheated on a few years ago and was just aware of it recently. What to do???