I can get over my wife having sex with the OM. But I just can't get over her performing / receiving oral sex with him. To me that is the ultimate act of intimacy. She says that she felt disgusted with herself everytime it happened. And that he manipulated her into doing it. I say if she did not want to do it, she should have said "no". She says it is no different than having sex, it was all wrong to do. Is this possible that it is all the same? Am I overreacting? Someone please help me get past this. I need only logical and genuine advice.
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