
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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I feel like a crazy person!! He told me so many lies, I have no idea what to believe anymore. The whore totally lied to me too. I dont know what is true/false. I have questioned him and I just get the same shit. Right now I am having problems believing he didnt have feelings for her, he says he hates her and would punch her in the face if he saw her. How do I know he is not just saying that. When I first caught him lying, I told him I wanted to meet everyday for lunch. He cried and bitched and I even almost left him over this. Now how can you act in that manner and now have feelings for the bitch your meeting on lunch break? I am feeling so effn angry right now. Any input would help!!! TIA
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"Gaslighting is a slang term from the 1950s but is the perfect word to describe one tactic of the abuser. The dictionary definition of gaslighting is to drive someone crazy. This is used to keep the abusers victim under control. The abuser will swear that events never occurred and that certain things were never said. The victim knows better, but over time will begin to question their sanity. Be alert to gaslighting tactics that can beat you down and make you think you are going insane."