about 3 weeks ago I found out that my husband had hired women off a escort site for sex. We have been married 23 years and we had been seeing a marriage counselor for several months prior to him doing this. He was going through depression and had thoughts of suicide. The counselor says his judgement was clouded. He did this over a period of 5 months with five different women, who he paid for their services. We were tested for STD's and find out next week the results; he says he did use condoms but I am still very concerned. I want to make the marriage work and he is working with me and the counselor. I have thoughts daily of what he did and I need to begin to move on. Any help or suggestions would be appreciated.
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