I love my friends dearly but sometimes their advice is harsh and I understand tough love but when tyhey have never been married for 10 years and have a spouse or partner cheat on them I feel like sometimes they do not understand it at all. I understand that my husband is with another woman, I understand that he can't come back to me so he really has no choice right now (expecially if he lives with her which I suspect he is...) and he does still have feelings for me but he has made the choice to cheat. my friedn Tom says he is doing this so I will leave me alone, being mean to me. I think it is all part of guilt and the fog/fantasy relationship.
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