Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
This might be a little different kind of topic, but Id like to get folks' opinions on this.
My wife cheated on me and has been shutting me out for nearly 2 years. In this time she had become nearly obsessed with a local-freebie newspaper she and an old highschool girlfriend run. This paper has become the most important thing in her life, and in fact, she is moving back to her parents place so she can work on this newspaper full time. Im taking care of the kids.
During teh time she shut me out, she and her friend become almost phone inseperable- calling all the time,always on the IM together.It became more and more clear that the emotional partnership I used to have with my wife was no replaced by her friend.
When my wife had her 6 month affair- the firend, who is also married and has 2 kids, knew about the whole thing.In fact, she helped cover for it when the two of themw ere supposed to be doing a story in Ohio for their newspaper and my wife met up with her lover.
I have told my wife that I never want to see this person again, and that I hoped she wold have the decency to make sure the friend does not come to the house anytime I am there with the kids. In this whole twisted mess, the friend is the only person my wife has stood up for. My wife thinks I have no right to blame her friend for anything. I think Im justified in placing much of the blame on her for encouraging and aiding the affair.
AM I just being silly?
My wife cheated on me and has been shutting me out for nearly 2 years. In this time she had become nearly obsessed with a local-freebie newspaper she and an old highschool girlfriend run. This paper has become the most important thing in her life, and in fact, she is moving back to her parents place so she can work on this newspaper full time. Im taking care of the kids.
During teh time she shut me out, she and her friend become almost phone inseperable- calling all the time,always on the IM together.It became more and more clear that the emotional partnership I used to have with my wife was no replaced by her friend.
When my wife had her 6 month affair- the firend, who is also married and has 2 kids, knew about the whole thing.In fact, she helped cover for it when the two of themw ere supposed to be doing a story in Ohio for their newspaper and my wife met up with her lover.
I have told my wife that I never want to see this person again, and that I hoped she wold have the decency to make sure the friend does not come to the house anytime I am there with the kids. In this whole twisted mess, the friend is the only person my wife has stood up for. My wife thinks I have no right to blame her friend for anything. I think Im justified in placing much of the blame on her for encouraging and aiding the affair.
AM I just being silly?
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
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I'm trying to exercise daily. I was doing fairly well until I sprained my ankle 2 weeks ago but now I'm getting back on the horse. Today I walked over a mile with my arm weights that are about 22lbs total. I was out of shape and it was hard on my arms. I also did my 30 situps. I'm also going to drink a lot of water and try to eat healthy. I do tend to have a sweet tooth but I'm cutting...
I do however agree that your wife needs better friends, because a true friend wouldn't encourage that sort of betrayal.
I wish you all the best.