first I want to say that I am new to this place, I in fact joined today. I would also like to let you guys know that English isn’t my first language so please forgive any grammatical errors you will inevitably find in this post.
So I found out that my wife of 8 years had been cheating on me for past month and half with someone she works with. She didn’t volunteer this information mind you I had discovered while going through her phone.
I had this feeling in my gut she was up to no good and I have been proven right, truth is I wasn’t the best of husbands, I was depressed for a while so I wasn’t there for her for half the time we were together, she stuck by me when most people would have packed their bags and left me ( through financial insecurity, lack of job etc.....) but thankfully I have snapped out of that after the birth of our daughter who is 18 months now.
Because of all the expenses we have we can’t afford to live off of just my income currently so she is still working with her AP, I’m sure I don’t need to tell you just how I feel about that.
she claimed that they have never slept together and have only kissed, I don’t believe her, but even if I did she had admitted to having strong feelings for him but she is adamant I’m the one she loves and will always love and only wants to be with me.
the truth is I don’t care that she stopped going behind my back and that she loves me etc..( I don’t think she does, you don’t cheat on someone you love ) my hurt is still the same. I do not trust her one bit, I thought she was the best person ever but she turned out to be one of the worst.
i have put on the good face for the past couple of weeks trying to work through it but the anger I feel inside is so much that it hurts, I just want to pack my bags and leave her so she suffers just as I did but I have been told in situations like these I shouldn’t act on emotions, I’m just so lost, I still love her but I can’t get over the fact that she had been doing this for over a month while pretending that everything was fine.
I’m so angry all the time. I know it’s not healthy. I want to trust my husband so bad but I’m having a really hard time. Sometimes I wonder if he’d be better off without me. I’m making everything worse by not trusting him. I feel like at times I do forgive him for cheating in me, but then he’ll do something or say something that doesn’t seem to add up, and I’ll go right back to...
I found out my husband was cheating on my with a girl from his gym. He went on a date with her and came home without his ring on. That's the only way I found out. He told me he was with a friend but after I started to question why he took his ring off he finally told me. I feel completely betrayed and angry. He says he stopped talking to her and has had no connection since I found out. He left...