
Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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Me and my husband had a talk yesterday he said things to me I just did not want to hear I think it made me feel worse about the hole thing, but that is not want I wanted to ask he asked me what it would take for me to ever forgive my friend the one that he had the affair with, I looked at him and told him are you kidding do you think after all this I would ever in a million years forgive that tramp for ruining my life I don't think so there is no forgiveness for her I have yet to forgive him yet. Does anyone hear think that I was wrong for not ever wanting to forgive her she had been my friend for 23 years maybe thats what makes it worse is she should have never done anything like this to me if she was truely my friend. Am I wrong?
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It's possible your husband asked you that to get a sense of what it will take for you to forgive him, or just to deflect some of your anger off himself for a while. Be careful of that tactic! Don't let him make himself out to be less responsible for this affair than your ex-friend.
They are both 100% to blame.
Forgiving.................takes time and healing, take your time, be gentle on yourself and heal.
It may be he is deflecting, or it could just be something stupid that came out of his mouth. NOT HIS PLACE to ask that of you.
Right now attend to you, your children and your marriage. The rest will take care of itself.