If you cheated on your spouse and still are able to get in touch with your ex (or current) lover would you contact them if you knew they were sick? By sick, I mean "possibly" terminally ill. I had recently talked to a friend of the OM I had the affair with and he told me he had been very sick. I called the OM and he told me about his symptoms and sounded horrible on the phone. I don't feel I'm cheating by talking to the OM on the telephone and I would tell my husband if it comes down to that in a heartbeat. I know in my heart that even my husband wouldn't want me to ignore someone who is ill. I don't feel that this is just another one of the OM's lies. He did feed me a bunch of lies in the 3 months that I knew him but I don't feel this is one of them.
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