I found myself in a horrible situation. I am so ashamed and need help dealing with this. I am in the middle of a divorce after 17yrs. I have been so terribley lonely. I met a guy that was just perfect and I was swept away before I knew it. Turns out he is married. His wife called me yesterday. I only knew the guy for a few hours. I hadn't talked to him or even considered contacting him after that one time. She was not very angry but let me know that she knew and she was hurt. I feel horrible. I want to erase this from my life. I don't know what to do. I feel like a really bad person when I know I really am not. I've been soooo lonely and he didn't make it known that he was married. I feel worse about being the OW than I felt when I was the one cheated on. The wife has called me a few times and is requesting I return her call again. I don't know what she wants from me and I'm so ashamed to speak to her. What should I do?
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