i found out last night that my partner of 14 years has been sending flirty texts and messages to a woman he met whilst on a holiday a few weeks ago. In the texts/messages he is calling her cute, sweetie, very special friend and i felt very upset and uncomfortable about it, as this isnt the way he would normally speak to another woman. i confronted him about it and he did the usualy of accusing me of being jealous, not trusting him, reading his texts (he actually knew i was reading his messages as he gave me his phone to find out if a message he had sent earlier in the day to my mum had sent or not) and accused me of not letting him have any "friends". this really anoyyed me as i am constantly trying to get him to go out and mix with his friends and have a life outside our relationship which he rarely does. he tried to jusyfy it by saying he flirts with people like that all the time and thats how he is with people say for example at work. This is nonsence as when you have been with someone for 14 year you get to know how they are with other people and how can someone be the total opposite of themselves when they are at work than when they are at home! total rubbish! i feel like he has totally betrayed our relationship and is disrespecting me. i told him he was a very silly man playing a very dangerous game, one which he should stop. he has plans to meet this woman in a few weekends time plus go on another group holiday with her, i have said this would be a bad decision based on what i have seen between them and tht if he goes something is bound to happen which would be just too much for our relationship to continue, he says im being too controlling and stopping him having any friends. i said he needs to make a decision her or me and thats it not about him having friends as whats going on with this woman is more than that or is likely to lead to more than that if nothing alreay hasnt happend. mostly i feel totally betrayed by him, why would he do something like this and think it is acceptable. am i being too harsh and sensitive?
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