I had a one night stand 3 years ago and I ended a several month emotional affair in December of last year. I admitted it to my wife in December after denying it for several months. We separated in February. She had dirvorce papers drawn up in April. She claimed to have filed the divorce papers because I wouldn't give her space. So, I did. I backed off and left her completely alone. When I left her alone, she found reasons to call me or text me. I got confirmation Wednesday that she is having an affair with a coworker. She has been gently leading me down a path to a divorce, saying she needed the divorce to heal completely from our marriage. I confronted her via phone on Wednesday. Since then, she has become angry and pushing more and more about the divorce. Now, she is hot and heavy about the divorce. Even told me that I didn't have to worry about the 2 kids I adoted, she was sure we could fix that too. (I adopted two of her children) I am not even thinking about a divorce right now. I am more concerned with getting my emotional state back to healthy. Has anyone else experienced this and can you share some insight with me?
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