The divorce if filed. Marriage over. Ex chose OW and her family. I have accepted the first two but am having such a hard time with the third. And i know i have to develop a much thicker skin because things are going to get worse. Valentines doesn't bother me, my anniversary probably will, my 12 year old refuses to visit his dad at the OW house though i am sure that day will come soon. And then as they go on with it how do you accept it ALL. Does it just seem to matter less and less. I want him to fail. I want him to be unhappy. How can he care for another child while his own sits at home? What do i do on the day that they all go on a "family" outing and i am the one missing. What have you all done to get passed this? How do we do it. i have to prepare myself and harden myself a little. Today I received the OW car registration addressed to both of them at my address. He had co signed for a new car for her a few months back, i guess he's the primary so it came to my address. It really made me feel like crap. That just got me to thinking how all these things can pile up on us and what can we do? Anyone?
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