This is the 8th week since I found out my H was having an affair. I've been half crazy with emotions most of the time. We are seeing a good therapist. He's trying. I'm trying. Some hours are good. Some hours are bad. I've finally begun to have more good hours than bad this week. I actually haven't thought about 'it' or 'her' or 'them' for a few consecutive hours this week. Is this a normal time frame to start seeing the healing? To those who have been through this and are further along - is this the beginning of healing? Just curious how long it took for others of you in the same situation.
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