My husband left 5 days ago. It has been real difficult. I know he left for the girl. The one he has only known for 3 weeks. I do not know why I look, but I did, and they text each other about 120 X each day and talk on the phone. For a little, it made me feel a little comforted because if he is texting her that much then he obviously isnt with her Anyways this girl has him whipped! She knows I made him delete her friend from facebook because her friend had pics of my husband and the girl he left me for together Pictures of them close, him carrying her, pictures with comments like he would have been proud of you and given you an award, oh wait he already did hahaha. really immature things to make me upset. Well he first told her not to tag him and then I asked him just to delete her friend because all my relatives are his friend on face book. I do not know if many of you know what that means but,,, if anyone tags him in a photo all my relatives and friends will not only see that photo when they click on his name, but right when they log in the pictures will be on their home page (kind of like a news page). I know this girl was pushing him to leave me b/c of the text message I read about what about my feelings and I am falling for you etc. etc.). I also know she is very immature based on the photo comments that her friends and her made about him giving her a reward. I am real scared about her tagging him in photos or writing on his wall about his affair. And I know any women who would pressure a man to leave his wife and child after only knowing him for 3 weeks has serious self-esteem issues (which I will also probably have by the end of this experience). So I am assuming her low self-esteem will just encourage her to do junk like that on his facebook the second his phone goes dead or she does not get a hold of him for a few hours and she thinks hes with me or something. Or anytime she gets jealous at all. I have not told my relatives about what happened. My parents know, but not my extended relatives or most friends. I am not ready to.. this all has been going on for 2 weeks only and he just left 5 days ago. I am not ready.. Plus, one of our relatives just passed away and its really not the time for anyone to know now. I begged him to take her off immediately. He still has not done it (1 hour now) and he turned his phone off. Its just really making it difficult to deal with and I feel she is just trying to push this situation to be more painful and ugly than it has to be.
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