I just wanted to say to the people here I have stated several times we are examples to our kids..like it or not, we are..we need to do what is right so they will do what is right...I believe my son will grow up to be a great dad, and a great husband...and If my example has had anything to do with it then I couldnt be any prouder...Ive tried to make sure he sees me trying my best to put my family first all the time. One of the reasons I dont sleep around is that I want to be an example for him,,If he were to grow up with a father who sleeps around,he might think its okay and I dont want that...I never told him what his mom did(and may still be doing) because I believe when your in a family you have a bond of trust with each other,,that includes the kids,not just between spouses and I dont want my boy knowin his mom betrayed his trust too...obviously she doesnt care, but I do...think about it people. Would you want your sons cheating on their wives? Would you want some guy hurting your daughter? Would you want your daughters to run around and destroy their familes too?...if your not happy in your marriage then do the right thing,,try to fix it..if you cant then divorce..dont put the kids in the middle,make sure they know you still love them..and at least that way you can be someone they can still look up to...
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