Can someone PLEASE help me with this. OW#2 lasted about 30 days My H & her bascially lived together thanks to the ARMY, he was TDY 100 of miles from home, given money a car and an apartment for his long duty-anyways after his TDY was up he swears (I believe him, things just could not have happened)that it ended. no more contact.She knew he was married,so on & so on,she has confirmed this too-she told me she knew her place that he was never gonna leave me. Now here is where I get confused. After 4 yrs of no contact he searches for her when he got transfered to the state right next to hers.Our son & I had not yet arrived. Found her, called and drove many miles to see her, spent the afternoon with her no sex.I asked whats that all about. He tried to explain to me he was ending a chapter. WHAT CHAPTER?? The darn book had been closed for 4 yrs and it had been sent to the second hand store, what kind of can of worms was he opening up? He said he wanted to end it, but can't tell me... end what.Seems it had ended 4 yrs earlier, then he tells me he wanted to make sure she never told me, blah, blah. blah. Never tell me.If she had not told in 4 yrs why would she tell me then? Then contact ended for 2yrs then email contact started for about 4 yrs. No in person contact. then he stopped all emails, then about a year after that she contacted him to wish him Happy Birthday. He refused to reply and she did it again this year and low & be hold that is how I found out. CAN SOMEONE PLEASE GIVE ME SOME INIGHT INTO WHAT WAS HE THINGING AFTER 4 YRS !!! WHAT CHAPTER WAS HE ENDING !! I have my thought.
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