How do I get through this? He\'s been having an affair for a year? A year? Where was I? I suspected for months but not a year. I asked and he denied ... coward. I asked to meet the woman he states he has \'feelings\' for and she\'s also a coward. I need her to see what she\'s done to me and my family. I need her to see the hurt she\'s caused me. I\'ve attempted to contact a counselor to see if we can put it back together but I\'m so afraid that I\'ll never be able to get through this sick/empty/hurting ache in the pit of my stomach ... afraid I\'ll never, ever be able to trust him again or look at him with the same desire I had for him in the past. Can anyone tell me is it possible to overcome this? Is it possible to forgive and move on? Can my family survive this ... can I???
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