They say that time heals all wounds.... I just need to surround myself with positive people, who can encourage me in my fight to win my wife back. I cheated on my wife, it has now been two years since my last affair. Since then I have made myself stronger, I don't feel the urge to be with any other women, other than my wife. I am now trying to rebuild our marriage stronger. It is taking some time, but I am here for the long haul anyway, so I do have all my life to fix this. I am working my ass off to show her that she is the only woman that I want to spend my life with. I read an interesting story over here, where the couple renewed their vows, and the cheating husband threw his old wedding band into a lake, out with all the old bad memories. I too would like to have my story turn out like that one. I can't give up on my wife and let her just go on without me. She has to know just how much I regret having had any affair, and how much I'm willing to suffer and take my medicine, recieve what ever God has for me, and let her know that I love her without a doubt...... There must be a way to get her to see me for the man that I've become, and not the man that I used to be. I am open to any suggestions as to how I should go about a new approach. But I can't give up and let the best thing that has ever happened to me just walk out of my life without a fight....
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