I have been reading books, articles, blogs and even more books and it seems that general consenses is that after giving forgiveness comes a sense of peace and another step in the healing process. But I have also been unable to get the act out of my head. Every time she tells me the story, new things come out. It was a one time affair, it was with a long-time friend, they had discused his new found "feelings" for her, then talked about our marrital problems, then he took advantage of her vulnerablity. If I can't move on how can I forgive but how can I move on with forgiving her
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