I know I am very bitter and I also can feel that coming from a lot of people on this site. Not that I do not understand because like I said I feel the same way but I don't only want to hear the negative I want to hear some encouragement because I have made the choice to stay and work on my marriage and I know I made mistakes too. No I did not go outside of our marriage but I did desert him in other ways. I am not making excuses for him and what he did but I do know that we are both trying very hard to make a change in our marriage and how we interact with each other. I love him and I am trying to be positive but it is really hard to hear such negative things all the time. I really hope that there are some people out there that made the mistakes and still ended up living happily ever after and healed.
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