I have been reading all of the the items here for over a month and I have been afraid to respond. I am so sorry that so many of you have been through what I am experiencing but it is comforting to know that at least there are people out there who understand how I feel and there are so many topics out there that I can relate to. Thank you for writing each and every day... It helps. My question is to those of you out there who have decided to stay in your marriage. Do you ever get past the thought of your spouse having sex with another woman? There was not only the emotional side of things but there was the sexual side of things as well. I have read so much that I think that the emotional part is probably the worst... I can't help but to think about the sexual part of this relationship and I wonder if I will ever be able to get the images out of my head? I know that he is sorry for what he has done to me and I have read so much about other experiences that I know he is really trying. I would have never in a million years expected my husband to do something like this to me. I work hard and support the family and I am so angry that he did this (talking on the phone or meeting this other person) while I was either traveling or a sleep because I was tired from my day. Any insight would be helpful. And again I am so sorry for those of you out there that have been through this. I don't wish this on my worst enemy (except for of course the OW). Please be kind to me, this is my first entry....
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