My H's affair lasted on and off for 4 months. It has been 4 months since his confession, he has done everything right, I couldn't ask for him to do anything else to prove his love for me. He says the OW meant nothing to him, he can't even remember what she looks like, he cringes even when I say her name. He is so regretful and is in tears almost daily because he can't even believe what he did. I will tell him things that he said to me and some of his actions during that time and he can't believe that he was capable of doing and saying awful hurtful things to me. He blames nothing on me he says he was upset with me over minor issues but because he wasn't good on communicating he held everything in, at that time his emotions were escalating and what do you know right there was the OW to make him feel better about what he was feeling. Anyways here we are 8 months later after if first happened. Is it really possible that he could have been in a "fog" and not know what he was doing. He will tell me he never wanted to be with her over me but didn't know how to get out of it and keep me from leaving. He says sex was nothing, not even good, can men really have sex and have it mean nothing at all. Is it possible that my H does not think of her at all, I know it was not an emotional affair. I probably think of that whore more than he does.
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