When I was still oblivious to the fact that my husband was cheating... a rumor spread in my community that my husband and I were getting divorced. I was approached by many acquaintances and a few close friends who were upset by the news and offered a shoulder to cry on, their condolences, etc. Nobody could pinpoint the source of the news, but everyone seemed to be talking about it. My husband and I were both upset about it and told everyone it wasn't true. My husband is stil angry about this to this day, and blames one of my friends for starting a rumor because she is not fond of my husband and always looks out for me. I, on the other hand, think it was probably the OW, who is also a part of this community and was apparently very in love with my husband. I bet that he told her awful things about me (which he denies ever doing) and she got the idea in her head that they were going to be together and started talking about it to others. Does this make sense? My friend is a very direct woman, and wouldn't beat around the bush and make up rumors, and never has for other sensitive issues, so the only other place I could imagine this came from is OW. Just another reason for me to feel upset.
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