I have finally decided to try and save my marriage. My H affair lasted 4-6mo 2 1/2 yrs ago. I found out 6-7mo ago. It has been the most diff. time in our lives. After many questions, tantrums, roller coaster rides, I believe I am ready. We have done some couples counseling, but I ended it, I think we should start again. Any way this is help I need. What types of things can I do to avoid verbally hurting my husband when I have bad days. What types of things can he do. I know that the road we were on would have lead to divorce, after 20yrs of marriage we did not put the effort into our marriage that it needed to stay alive. I have never cheated and was in the same marriage, so it was/is hard for me to understand how someone could risk everything for someone he says was so unimportant. (Still having issues LOL) Any way anything helpful would be well received. I am getting ready to work a late shift, but my husband and I will read response tonight.
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