mY HUSBAND HAD AN AFFAIR THAT LASTED OVER 1 YEAR. i FOUND OUT EVERYTHING OVER 3 MONTHS AGO. WE BEGAN MARRIAGE COUNCELING. I GUESS IT WAS HELPING BUT THE COUNCELOR HAS GOTTEN TO THE POINT OF SEARCHING FOR THINGS TO SAY TO US. TELLING US EACH TIME THAT HE SEES US AS A STRONG COUPLE WHO WILL WORK IT OUT. WHEN WE COME IN, IT IS ALWAYS THE SAME ?'S. HOW ARE YOU DOING, HOW ARE THINGS GOING... I FEEL LIKE I CAN CONDUCT THE SAME EXACT SESSION AS HE DOES. I FEEL LIKE I NEED SOMEONE TO KICK OUR ASS A LITTLE. TO MAKE US OPEN UP, TO LET US GET IN TO IT A BIT, ALMOST PROVOKE IT. I HAVE BEEN TOLD THAT SOMETIMES AFTER AN AFFAIR,A COUPLE ACTUALLY HAS A STRONGER RELATIONSHIP. I AM ASSUMING WITH THERAPY. I GUESS WHAT I AM ASKING IS THERE DIFFERENT TYPES OF THERAPY THAT MAYBE I AM MISSING? I CAN NOT DO THE SIT AND ASK IS EVERYTHING WELL KIND. HAVE ANY OF YOU EXPERIENCED A THERAPIST OR TYPE OF THERAPY THAT REALLY IS INTERACTIVE(I GUESS THAT IS THE CORRECT WORDING) WHERE THE THERAPIST MAKES YOU DIG DEEP. I DONT KNOW, I JUST WANT IT TO WORK AND KNOW I WILL NOT GET TO THAT POINT IF I DO NOT TALK W/ SOMEONE WHO IS GOING TO DRIVE US TO BE BETTER. THANK YOU IN ADVANCE FOR ANY ADVISE AND FOR LISTENING TO ME BABBLE!
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