Last night I asked the question if he truley wants a divorce. He said Yes. I told him that I did not want this divorce and wanted to try to rebuild our marriage. He said that he can not go threw this again and dosn't have it in him. That he will always love me and that I'm a wonderful women and have a great personality. I asked him what this ow has that I can't give you. He said she has nothing to do with it. That for several years he has been feeling like this. I told him that I don't want him to do anything he doesn't want to do and if he truely deeply wants this divorce that he will have to file. I'm not going to do his dirty work. I also told him that he needs to leave. That I can't stand to see him everyday. I need time to heal and move on. He said he could go to his parents house but really dosn't want to. Anyway, I was hurt already But this just put the iceing on the cake. I truely can't beleive that he wants to end this marriage of 16 years. We have a family together. I asked him if he really put 100% in our marriage and he said no. I also said that I did not put 100% in either. That maybe now we can start to do it the right way and work on it with giving 100%. He still convinced me in his own way that he wants out. My heart is broken and im lost and affaid. I love him so much and never wanted any of this to happen. I just don't understand any of this. Please help!
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