My husband cheated on me with a co-worker for about 6 months. We moved and he continued to keep in touch with her via phone and tried on numerous occassions to meet up with her in other cities for 2 additional years. I found about 6 months ago and asked him to make no further contact with her. He agreed and so far I beleive that he is no talking/communicating with her. My question is, my husband has accountablity to stop the relationship but since no one knows about it (i.e her husband) what will keep her from contacting my husband? Should I contact her husband and tell him about the affair so that she too will stay away from my husband. Or do I just need to relax and try to rebuild the trust that has been broken between my husband and I? We have been married for only 5 1/2 years (only married 3 years when the affair began). Oh and we conceived a child during the high point of the affair (our second child) born on the day after the affair began a year later. I am still reeling in pain.....
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