I want to ask this. Why is it that if a woman feels like she isnt getting what she wants at home or needs excitement, its the husbands fault and she has an affair? I mean of course married life(especially after 20 years) wont exactly have the same excitment of a new love. My wifes boyfriend didnt have to go through any hard times with her, didnt have to struggle to raise a family with her,wasnt there for all the bad times as well as the good..She only saw him at his best. Of course he was always tellin her everything she wanted to hear,,he wanted to sleep with her...and my wife fell for it. I always been a good husband but of course I had my bad days like everyone else, Im not perfect, but no one is. Ive always tried to treat her right and even throw in some suprises now and then so she doesnt get bored(trips,nights out, things like that), And in my 20 years of marriage I never once said a negative word about her apperance, I always told her she was beautiful..but I can only do so much,,life is hard and sometimes we have bad days,,,so How can I compare to a man that she only sees on the good days and who only has great things to say to her? The fact that he would sleep with a married woman with kids should be enough to show her is is trash, but I still cant compare..
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