Infidelity Support Group

Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...

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somefool 04/01/2008

Does anyone else feel this infidelity is an epidemic??? My H left me this in my car? Does anyone realize how many of these stupid im sorry songs there are? Check this one out!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Iawro7IfoCM

gem66 04/01/2008

I wish my husband would leave me a song like that in my car! Would let me know he would do whatever it takes

reil64 04/01/2008

It would be nice to hear something similar from my wife.

deleted_user 04/01/2008

Sorry, somef.... I'm w/ them. The touch (alone) at the end of the video, had me sobbing like a fool. It's amazing how, there are (those of us) that would give anything to hear those words, to feel that touch, to believe in love again. It is sad, that songs of this nature are a dime a dozen; what does that say about our society?

deleted_user 04/01/2008

I just listened to it and have tears in my eyes. I will play it for my husband when he gets home. That's what he told me when I told him I would work on our marriage ---- "He would do whatever it took!"

deleted_user 04/01/2008

My husband and I have started to share and explore our music - he introduced me to that song and this one - it isn't a happy song but perfectly describes why some of us stay in relationships that aren't fairytale.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=b4_bl8uTonQ

reil64 04/01/2008

Has anyone listened to this one?

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mEOFOobPw4o

deleted_user 04/01/2008

I long to hear something like this from my wife. It would mean so much to me, hopefully you feel the same way. After almost six weeks of my wife's affair being out in the open, she doesn't know what she wants. Her affair lasted almost seven and a half years, so I wish she would give me something like that song.

deleted_user 04/01/2008

Wow! What I wouldn't give to hear that from my H!!

deleted_user 04/02/2008

IMO there can`t be enough "I`m sorry" songs. I love Lifehouse.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

For him to do that for you is a sure sign to me that he REALLY is trying. Lucky you!!
Does anyone have a good song to give the cheater on how BAD this feels?

somefool 04/02/2008

Thank all of you for your responses and other songs that you shared. It still doesn't make me feel any better. Stange there is a song I will find it for you.

reil64 04/02/2008

Here is another good one. Don't pay attention to the video, listen to the words.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EjC9k7U0Wzc

deleted_user 04/02/2008

It's sort of funny that many of these songs have been playing a lot on the radio lately. I live in NY and our past governor resigned based on his seeking a prostitute and taking her across state lines. An investigation is being held on whether he used state funds. Lately there seems so much of it in the news and I guess radio stations have picked up on that. It just seems to coincidental.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

Lifehouse was our band from the beginning. After he told me about the affair I played him this song and made him promise to do "Whatever It Takes". He promised he would, but ironically that day she called and told him she was pregnant. He left me a week and a half later and now they're together. This song kills me.

deleted_user 04/02/2008

i have heard those exact same words. but dumb me, i didn't realize that "whatever it takes" included talking to skanky bitches on the internet. :(
they are just words

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