I found out about 2 months ago that my husband has been having an affair for over a year. We began marriage counceling. He initiated it, made the appointment, followed through. The councelor sees us as a strong couple who will most likely work things out. Thats great. I am still torn up inside, change my mood with the wind I am sure most of you know how I am feeling. But what about my H. He tells me that he too is torn up inside because of the person he became and what he has done to me. I have suggested numerous times that he go to an individual councelor as I am to talk and get things out. He keeps telling me that he just does not think that will help him. Which frightens me ALOT. Does he think that he will be verbally beat up by this person, is he afraid of what he may find out??? Does any one who has cheated have anything to add or any others who has a spouse who found indiv. counceling helpful or not?? thank you
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