Infidelity Support Group
Any relationship in which one partner engages willfully in sexual relations with another outside of the partnership is considered to have experienced infidelity. This breach of trust is often traumatizing for the faithful partner as well as the relationship, and support is often needed to heal emotionally and to decide whether or not the relationship should continue after...
my husband is a cheater and i feel i have tryed every thing to make him happy at home. He still lies to me about little house hold stuff. Then he yells at me to trust him. Im so confused. sometimes i wish i could do something drastic just to wake him up. He always makes me out to be the wrong one. He cheated because i made him un happy. 1st time was cause i made him unhappy in bed. 2nd time i made him unhappy in his life. I know in my heart he has the real problems not me. I dont understand what to do from here. We have 2 kids or i would have left already.
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What you must understand is that he is wrong. This is not about you. This is about him. You're both in the same marriage, right? Does he meet all of your needs? Are you happy right now? Well, have you cheated? He cannot blame you for his stupid, foolish, selfish choices. No one held a gun to his head and forced him to cheat. This was his decision all along. You cannot blame yourself and he cannot blame you. This is all about him.
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I understand,,how do you trust someone who lies to you? You cant, the least a cheater can do is be honest with you if they expect youto trust them...And your right, he has the problems,not you...He wasnt forced to cheat,,it was his decision and he is blaming you for it...cheaters tend to do that--it makes them feel better about what they have done...try to get him into counseling..it may help.
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Your right- how can you trust a cheater when you're finding out that he's lying about little things? It makes you think about what else is he lying to you about. Ok, you're sticking around for the kids sake... but what are you teaching your children when you stay with someone who lies, cheats, and doesn't take any responsibility? Just think about it. I wish you all the best! Good luck.
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I have been here before, a long long time ago and now I am back.Forgive me for not just saying what I want to say,even under a triple dose of antidepressants it is still raw and seeping and I am hesitant at revealing it as at least under the bandages around my heart I don,t have to look at how raw and wounded.My child was cleaved from my heart by his own actions. my child of ten,turning eleven...
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theatre and I are there already. I'm having a very berry tea with crackers, cheese and cherry tomatoes and she's having a joint with some beer and we're both on really comfy recliners on thick pile carpet. we need some help with the decor if anyone is around??
