I know in my gut and through clues that my girlfriend has been cheating. We were doing very well and we were discussing marriage, children, buying a home, and then now there is nothing. She had a crush on a mutual friend in the past and all I know is that they supposedly kissed. Well, their interaction was always odd but I tried to play it off. I just couldn't shake the feeling that the stares, the flirting, the constant talking and everything was a lot more. She started acting distant towards me, our sex life went to nothing and she was hiding her passwords and phone from me. When confronted, of course all I heard was that I was jealous and that he was just a friend. Well, we went back home for Thanksgiving and I noticed everything as usual and tried not to overreact. On returning home, I discovered text messages from him saying things like, "You don't have to leave", "You make this place so much better". I confronted her about it and all I got was that I was jealous man and that she had to leave me because I don't trust her. I have asked for truth and she ducks it. She keeps reaching out to me and I can tell that she's riddled with guilt. Our mutual friends say she really didn't give them a good explanation and she's trying to act as if everything is fine. What are your thoughts?? I don't know what to do any more and this feeling inside of me just won't go away.
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